PSYCHOLOGY OF BODY LANGUAGE AND PERSONAL HABITS

BODY LANGUAGE, BEHAVIOUR AND PSYCHOLOGY

How convenient life would be if we are able to read other person’s mind, some people use their intuition to this, but if you are not so perceptive there is only one choice left, learning to read others body language.

If you are a good observer maybe if we are able to observe a person’s general habits we can predict his/her personality.

Here are some interesting methods to soft-skill questions and predicting a person’s character:

·     As you can see from the picture, what do you infer from it?

Typically I would be receiving 3 types of answers

1)   The glass is half full: This Indicates that you are an optimist.

2)   The glass is half empty: This indicates that you are a pessimist.

3)   The glass is half full half empty: This indicates that you are addlepate.

·     Now in which of these ways do you press your toothpaste tube?

1)   If you are of type-1 then you are quite conservative and thoughtful person.

2)   If you are of type-2 then you are quite luxurious and creative person.

3)   If you are of type-3 then you are quite lazy and reckless person.

·     In which of these positions do you sleep?

 

1)   The Fetal Position: You are tough on the outside, but soft inside and are of the shy types.

2)   The Log Position: You are quite social, carefree and friendly and trustworthy.

3)   The Yearner: You are open-minded, yet slow and suspicious of others in decision making

4)   The Soldier: You are silent, reserved and have a high set of moral codes

5)   The Freefaller: You are bold and sociable inside but can’t deal with criticism.

6)   The Starfish: You are very helpful and don’t like being the centre of attraction.

7)   The Stargazer: You have people as your priority and do anything for them.

8)   The Pillow Hugger: You cherish relationship over anything else.

9)   The Thinker: You keep oscillating between extremes and highly emotional.

We get over 55% of information through NON-VERBAL Communication like

1.    Facial Expressions

2.    Gestures

3.    Other Body Movements

When we are able to pay attention to these signals the other people send without even realizing it, we can always have the upper hand in conversations.

So here are few interesting body reading facts and their hidden meanings

1)           CLOSING EYES

This doesn’t mean the person is scared of you, but he/she is trying to run away from the outside world.

Most likely they had already mentally quaked out of the conversation and by closing their eyes they are just trying to disappear from you.

2)COVERING THEIR MOUTH

A few fingers or even the entire fist near the mouth indicates that the other person is trying to hide something from you.

Remember how in childhood we used to cover our mouths to hide the Mid-Term marks from Mom.

Sometimes this gesture is said even by fake coughing.

3)CHEWING ON THE GLASSES/PENCIL/PEN/CIGAR/GUM

These people are somehow depressed and stress up inside, try cheering them up.

They are simply chewing their glasses eyepiece/pencil/pen/cigar/gum to remember their mom and few childhood memories for relief.

4) ”PRESENTING” THEIR FACE

This type of gesture is commonly used to determine the people of the opposite gender.

When a person is resting his/her chin on his/her hand and speaking, it’s a way of indicating that “Hey! It’s my original character, enjoy as much as you want.” (A right Signal for a man to compliment the lady he wants to woo)

5) RUBBING THEIR CHIN/STROKING THEIR BEARDS

This is what people do when they are trying to take a decision, they stare in all possible directions randomly and absent-mindedly.

6)CROSSED ARMS

We often use this gesture to indicate that we are annoyed or irritated with the other person.

7)FIXED POSTURE

This is gesture is often done when we want to grab the attention of someone, wherein the person tries to straighten his/her posture

8)LEANING FORWARD

When a person is interested in the other one and wants to know more of him/her, he/her subconsciously lean forward.

This shows that the other person likes you so much and is often found in a group of people sitting together.

9)LEANING BACK

If someone is leaning back it indicates that they are not interested/uncomfortable/tired of the conversation, so better be conscious of my friend.

10)SWINGING FROM THEIR HEELS TO TOES

Not only kids do this, but if a person bounces and up and down on his heels and toes, it indicates that he is happy and also anxious about something at the same time.

11)RUBBING HANDS

If a person is rubbing his/her hands it indicates a positive attitude and he/she is confident about the job that lies ahead.

12)FIXING THEIR TIE

This gesture depends on the situation, if a man is doing this in front of a woman he is trying to woo her, however, any other situation suggests that the man is feeling uncomfortable/ tense.

13)COLLECTING IMAGINARY LINT

People often show this to indicate that they are displeased, but at the same time don’t want to voice their thoughts.

14)PUTTING THEIR FEET ON THE DESK

This gesture means negativity, disrespectful and authoritative.

15)PLAYING WITH SHOE

This gesture indicates the other person trials to grab your attention and also showcase their playful nature.

16)AVOIDING EYE CONTACT

If a person is looking away from you, it indicates that she is dishonest with you and is/has already cheated on you.

It indicates lost interest.

17)UNINTERRUPTED STARRING

If a person is staring at you continuously, he/she are trying to intimidate you and make you feel comfortable.

Or maybe the person is acting super hard to prevent you from knowing the truth.

18) A LOT OF BLINKING

A sub-conscious sign of being attracted or maybe even flirting.

19)FREQUENTLY AVOIDING

If a person keeps saying frequently no, clauses like “we shall see”, “I shall think”, you better be watching your back, my friend.


Well, what do you think of it, my friend?
Do experiment with them and ping me back with some interesting stories in the comment section below.
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